Modern parents have busy schedules to juggle and that is why most of the time they feel as if they are not being there for their teens as much as is necessary. But actually positive and nurturing parenting can be expressed by simple acts of affection as well, like a hug, a kiss, or a smile. Your teen does not need you to be there 24/7, that in fact could get a bit stifling for everyone. All they need to know is that you care and will support and protect them through thick and thin. Various researches have proven that even as babies, those who get nurturing and physical affection from parents grow up to be more balanced adults. Such kids have shown to earn better academic grades, demonstrate healthier behaviors, display positive peer interactions, and are better equipped to cope with stress.

Banish Your Doubts

If you are still struggling with the nature of nurture, here are a few basics recommended by child experts all over the world, you can include in your parenting style to make it even better:

Exploring Strengths and Needs

The most nurturing thing you can do for your teen or for anyone for that matter is to listen to them. Most parents are so busy laying down the law at home that they keep talking and forget to listen. Which is why most children develop the habit of “hearing” but not listening. It is important to listen to your teen. They are at such a complex point of their lives that they need to be heard and understood. So each day take even a few minutes out of your life to just listen to what your teen is saying and talking about.

Building Their Souls

As a parent you have always lived up to the responsibility of providing the best for your kids, from physical nourishment, clothing, schooling, entertainment and relaxation. Now take some time out to nourish their souls as well. If faith and religion is not your thing, then it is vital that you build your teens confidence. Most teens come across as rude, arrogant and street smart. You were once in the same situation and taking a trip down memory lane will remind you that such an attitude is just a cover up for being scared. So reassure them and help them realize that you will always be there for them. A sense of belonging, security and knowing that they are loved and cared for will help tremendously in the development of kids and teens.

Inspire Greatness

Inspire your teen to be a better person by being a better person yourself also. Get involved with your community, help out in the neighborhood and help those who need it. Making this effort will help your teen realize that the world in not such a scary place and that being helpful is not just a choice, but it’s a way of life. Inspire your teen to be a better person by doing random acts of kindness.  

And in the end remember to understand the power of words and actions. There are times in every parents life when a thousands words can not convey what a simple hug can and at other times everything needs to be spelled out. Learn this delicate balance and watch your teen turn into the person you aspire to see.