Teenage is the time when kids explore different ideas and values, which may be different from their parents. This is how they find their independence and individuality. However, during this phase, teens tend to get involved in harmful activities, which the parents are usually unaware of. The major reason behind parents’ ignorance is their lack of communication with their teens. Parents need to learn the art of communication, with teenagers, to stay abreast with their world. Without this, it is difficult, rather impossible, for the parents, to curb their teens’ independence. Following, are some helpful tips which can help parents develop healthy communication with their teens:

Reach out to your kid

Parents should understand that their teens are in the position to comprehend their own problems. But they need someone older to help them when they are going through a difficult time. Therefore, instead of making all the decisions on your own, discuss them with your teen. Consider this a good thing that your child has developed the level of understanding required for being an adult.

Never criticize

Unnecessary criticism will create more gaps with your teens. If your kid is in a messed-up situation, do not put the entire blame on him/her. Instead, be supportive and ask them to explain the situation. The worst way to deal a sensitive situation is to corner your teen and criticize him/her. This will only cause them to recoil into their own world. Also, they will try to avoid interacting with their parents. If you want your teens to share their problems with you, then you should encourage them to ‘talk’ and you should ‘listen’ to them. Knowing how to communicate with teenagers is important. 

Value your teens’ sense of individuality

Teenage is the time when the child is undergoing constant behavioral and biological changes. During this phase of life, kids struggle with their looks, style sense and hang out circles. Most teens want to be seen as a part of the cool crowd at school. So, if your teen is ‘different’ from the regular teenagers, don’t get worried. Understand their uniqueness and work with them to make it their strength. The first step towards understanding is sending across your message to your kid. This can only be achieved if there is a certain level of communication with teenager.

Spend quality time with your teen

Time is the most important element in bridging gaps and building relationships; particularly, with kids. In the age of smart phones, it may be easy to stay connected with your child.  It is, however, crucial to spend ample time, with your teen, in person. This will help you remain aware of the issues faced by your child. For working parents, it may be difficult to spend a lot of time with their kids. But whatever time is spent at home, must be quality time. During this time, get to know your kids’ interests, have a good laugh with them, eat dinner together, play games, watch movies and have discussions. Essentially, make an effort to communicate with your child through different activities.